CHILDREN ARE HARMED WHEN PARENTS:

l. Make their child choose between mom and dad.

2. Question their child about the other parent's activities or relationships.

3. Make promises they do not keep.

4. Argue with or put down the other parent in the child's presence or range of hearing.

5. Discuss their personal problems with the child or in the child's range of hearing.

6. Use the child as a messenger, spy, or mediator.

7. Withhold access because child support has not been paid.