It is important that you understand your child(ren) and their needs during a divorce. Children respond differently based upon their personalities, but they also respond differently based upon their age and development.

For further information on child development, you might want to try:
http://www.cdipage.com/

For information about the impact of fathers on their small children:
http://www.zerotothree.org/parent.html?Load=parent_intro.html

To learn more about divorce and its impact on teens:
http://ceinfo.unh.edu/common/documents/divorce.htm

For hints for divorcing parents:
http://www.realtime.net/~mmjw/jw.htm
http://www.hec.ohio-state.edu/famlife/divorce/pguides/intro.htm